Questions about Resume Writing

Hello Everyone,

I have some questions and some to me are a little bit repetitive in nature.
I read all these tips and suggestions, I am very thankful for them; I even read a lot of them on other sites.
This for me is a on going drama for me and think for others, We try them all we think and have the same results.
I feel that most people get frustrated about resume writing because there's a lot of suggestions and it's very time consuming.
I am going to be honest to admit that I am lazy, I don't like spending time to correctly write a resume in the first place; secondly, I don't make time to properly find,research, or plan on how to sell and market my skills.

I know this is the reason for me being still unemployed and mostly because no one is hiring any more.
I got parts of it down to a science, but I feel as though it's not presenting or doing my skills that I have to offer any justice.
I still feel that I am confuse and no one has time to give me clarity on what I need to do to be a bit more competitive.
I feel hopeless still because I know or think what I am up against and it's even worsen by the fact that I am still not asking questions, and being persistent in my search.

My question is knowing that I can't afford a professional writer where should I truly go for help?
What can I do to cut time spent on writing a resume?
Would therapy really help me on my outlook on life, etc...?